Hi All
I posted this in chat but someone said it might be better in here.
Ok background I have been seeing my new bf for five months he has a 10 month old daughter and has been divorced for 12 months. Yip people the math doesn't paint him in a good light. Him and his ex wife had a ons resulting in his wee girl.
Five months in and he is wanting me to meet his DD I think it's because he wants me to see that he is serious about me and maybe down to the fact that I said his past doesn't paint him in a good light. He also said that because he works shifts (police officer 6 on 4off) he would like to spend time with the both off us. I'm happy with the arrangement that I see him when he doesn't have her so 2 days a week and after his shifts etc.
I feel that it is maybe a bit soon. I'm also trying to see it from his ex w point of view but she has came out with things like I'm not allowed to be in the same room as their dd because I need a crb check ect.
He is a lovely man sweet, hard working and treats me like a princess and I really like him maybe more than I really should at 5 months in but you can't help who you fall for.
So I think what I'm asking is
Is 5 months too soon? When do you think I should meet her?
I have offered to give his ex my mobile number and email or her to ask any questions about me do you think that was the right thing?
I just want to be a good GF with out pissing off the ex but I don't want to get to ahead of myself so any advice would be great
Thanks
Belle xx
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