So the time has come to do our wills and things have become a little heated between dh and myself..
We have one ds between us and dh has another son.
My proposal is that dh and I leave everything to each other but if we have predeceased the other then it goes 1/4 to step son and 3/4 our son.
My reasoning is that ds and ss get 1/2 of their dads half each ie 1/4 but my half or 2/4 of our estate goes entirely to ds.
My reasoning is that ss will get an inheritance from his mother's estate and its not my place to provide for him from my half of our estate.
Dh will be treating ss and ds exactly the same.
Dh days he thinks it should be 50/50. I have point blankly refused to this.
I have also just received an inheritance from my grandparents which I have proposed to keep separate from our joint estate and put it into trust for ds in his entirety.
Again if ss grandparents want to leave his mother something that is up to them and it is up to her whst she does with it. I don't see why ss should benefit from my grandparent's legacy. We are talking 000's so it is significant.
What has anyone else done in this situation?
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racmun · 21/08/2013 19:06
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