DH has two boys from a previous relationship. (8 & 6) Their Mother has always been a nasty, vindictive person who uses the boys to get to him. She's constantly playing mind games with DH and for some strange reason he lets it all happen! She's with a new man and they are planning to get married. New man is exactly the same as her. At Christmas, her bloke informed my DH that they are moving abroad and taking dsc with them. DH was understandably devastated.
Anyway, they're leaving next week. She has agreed to bring them back 3 times a year but has told eldest 'provided your dad continues with my csa payments then you will still see him'! That in itself has annoyed me.
Boys are with us now as DH wanted to spend some time with them before they left. Last night DH was setting up the email accounts on their iPods so they could keep in touch with family and came across messages to the boys from her bloke. He calls himself 'dad' The messages were 'we're in such and such, see you soon love mum and dad' 'make sure you help your mum today love dad' and then one when the boys were with us saying 'have fun with daddy DH's name'
I'm feeling so hurt and upset for DH who is a fantastic dad. I can't help feeling that they are poisoning the kids minds already, how bad Will it be when they are in a different country and he won't see them as often.
DH is being very calm about it all and not saying anything! [Angry]
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dtsmum · 03/08/2013 09:39
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