I am FUMING.
My DH has had dsd full time since she was tiny. She was born when he was 19 so still living with parents, where they stayed whilst dh went to work, GPs looked after dsd during the day. Then she started school, dh got a flat too at from school, GPs continued to look after her during the week but dh stayed with them and then he and dsd went home at weekends.
The point of thisis that MIL did a lot of primary caring in the early days so is took a long time to get used to things when I came on the scene.
I have been now for 4 years. We are married, have a house, baby etc etc. I do school stuff, washing, emotional tuff, appointments etc etc. I still involve MiL as much s poss S I know how hard it was for her to let go.
ANYWAY, was talking to MiL today about how I find it sad that step parents have no rights at all, and how if dh died dsd would automatically go to her mother, despite me bring her up for 4 years, her home and siblings being with me.
MIL then told me that I hadn't been bringing her up at all and surely if anything she would go to live with them!!! I am reallyoffended. I do understand that she played and still plays a massive role is dsd's life but really?!
All this on top of the fact that she undermines me constantly, and lets herself in to my house to rearrange dsd's sock drawer and take her laundry without asking.
ARGGGGGHHHH
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Fairy130389 · 02/08/2013 12:35
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