DP and I live together, have done for three years. He has been separated from the mother of DSS and DSD for seven years.
My issue is that I'm feeling something really irrational and I'd like to know how you ladies deal with it.
My DSis has recently left her marriage and is living with me until she can sort herself out. She has somewhere to go so that DP's daughter can still come and stay every weekend as usual.
However, DP told me yesterday that he doesn't want to tell DSD that someone has been in "her" room all week.
This comes from mentioning blindly one weekend that my parents were coming to stay and DSD saying "well, not in MY room they're not".
Why do I feel so averse to the fact that DP and myself have to clear all "evidence" of my sister out of the room before DSD arrives on her weekly stay?
Of course, I actually wouldn't have said anything anyway. The last thing I want to do is cause upset to DSD, I like her very much and we get on well.
So, why am I so upset by this when I would have said nothing anyway?
Help! DP is "shocked and upset" that I would "make his daughter feel unwelcome in her home" (nothing like that was said or implied I promise).
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grapelovingweirdo · 21/05/2013 13:55
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