hello,im new to all this but i feel so desperate i didnt know where else to go.been married 6 years three own children,one left at home ,partner had 3,who i have looked after for 6 years .their mum had abandoned them completely before i came on the scene.the daughter now 12 has always seen me as an intruder,until about a year ago she would create a scene if we held hands.husband treats her like she was 5 years old.i have never raised my voice to her or told her of as im not allowed ,although husband does to my children.she totally ignores me except if i speak to her.found 3 page hate letter to me,i was f ing this,not normal human being,wants her dad to chuck me out and how its her mission to get rid of me and my son.have showed husband,he took her out to set her straight,i am now confined to bedroom while she laughs and jokes with him in front room.i work at home for the family as he is ill,i provide everything.no apology he wants me to get out asap...it is MY house.i feel i have wasted 6 years.i would do anything for any of the children and feel totally gutted and heartbroken
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Connect with other Mumsnetters here for step-parenting advice and support.
Step-parenting
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.