Hi guys After some advise
DS is 11 months old and has had me to himself for 3 months while we were living in a refuge, now Ive met someone and he stays over a few nights a week.
Last week I was very ill and tired so he said he would help out more with DS. Everything was fine until DS heard my voice, at which point he threw a massive tantrum and refused to take his breakfast from my OH.
This has continued to be the case and I have even asked my OH to come over more often so DS can get used to him being around.
Is there a way for me to help the pair of them bond a bit better as when ever DS has a tantru my OH cant handle it and gets very upset. He has 2 kids of his own ages 2 and 4 who get on with me really well.
Ive tried to explain that it probably has something to do with DS having an abusive dad (which is why we were escorted to a refuge!) and having just me for such a long time.
If I am not around DS is fine, he only seems to kick off while im around or if he see's me leave the room.
Any advise??
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LittleBabyLucas · 09/02/2013 19:25
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