I have been having some problems with my partners son recently and it's came to the point where I can't see my relationship with my partner lasting because if it. I would appreciate any advice you have on the subject.
I have been with my partner for 4 years now and I really got on with his son who is now 7 years old.
Lately I find I strongly dislike my stepson, he is very rude. He butts into conversations constantly even when I've asked him repeatedly not to. He shouts at me to shut up if he doesn't like what I say. (being told to shut up 20 times a day is infuriating)
He will ask a question and I will answer it and he will completely ignore me and ask his father. I feel he shows me no respect. He refuses to go to bed before 11pm most evenings and I am fed up asking my partner to put him to his bed. He screams non stop, there is just non stop pointless noise! He has my partner waiting on hand and foot for him, if he wants a drink he demands it and my partner will do it. My partner still dresses him in the mornings or it would not get done, a 7 year old should be doing these things himself! I feel my partner tries to over compensate because he only sees his son on weekends, he wants to be more of a friend than a parent. He looks at his son through Rose tinted glass and does not see any issues with his behavior.
I find myself trying to get out the house as often as possible or locking myself in another room just to get away from him. I don't know how much more I can take.
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Strongly dislike my partners son?
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Kerbstick · 09/12/2012 00:09
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