I've been with my DP for just shy of a year. Brace yourselves for this story. He has 3 children, by two ex-wives. Two older ones (11 and 14) and one younger one (5). I have two children myself (DS, 5 and DD, 3).
It's mad, isn't it? He has his older two 50% of the time, and his youngest EOW. My two go to XH EOW too.
We don't live together but are seriously loved up. Despite the two failed marriages thing, he's a really good man and a great father.
My relationship with XH is perfectly fine. His relationship with ex-wife No. 1 is OK and with ex-wife No. 2 - awful. She seems to still be in love with him, and very upset about the break up, 4 years on. I had nothing to do with their break-up, I hasten to add.
I love him, his kids are lovely, but am I setting myself up for the mother of all hellish lives if I decide to move in with him at some point?
I guess I could still decide it's all too crazy and leave
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IfImHonest · 19/10/2012 11:53
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