Recently, I was having a nice chat with DSS (15) about his Halloween plans. I asked him if he wanted to have a party, and said that if he did, I'd have to think about it and talk to DH. He wasn't sure he wanted to, and I told him to have a think and get back to me.
Fast-forward to last night. We had an enormous row (that began over him not doing something he'd been asked by DH to do, and not following rules about his use of xbox/internet. When he got mouthy about those things, he was told off for that as well). The row ended up being between me and DSS, and he said some very rude things and generally was completely out of order. It all "ended" with him smashing the built-in multi-bulb light fixture in his room.
I've not spoken to him today. He was at school and football practice, and I ate dinner separately with DD and went to my room, so have only seen him in passing.
DH, however, has told me that this evening DSS asked DH if he could have a Halloween party. DH said "Not after last night."
I am gob-smacked that he'd even have the gall to suggest it, today, while the broken shards of glass are still lying all over his rug, there has been no apology, and he has told me to fuck off.
I am clearly still expected (by DSS, anyway - DH has dodged a bullet by saying no; even he couldn't let this one pass) to shop, cook, clean, and put up with 10-12 teenagers in my home on a weeknight.
Would it be wrong to tell him off for this, as well? Probably no point. Please restrain me.
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brdgrl · 18/10/2012 21:45
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