Sound familiar?
DSD2 is 15 in a few weeks. She has "planned" that she is getting an Ipod touch. Which my DH has "said" she will "pay half" with her birthday money.
I find out tonight, that she has also "planned" and told 3 friends that we will be taking them to London "shopping" and then for a meal. We live 150 miles from London. Train tickets for 6 of us (her three friends and both DH and me who she wants to come) are £160 for all of us, driving not an option as car too small and 300 miles in a day then London for 8 hours... err no.
Meal out with drinks (£20 each?) and burger/sarnie lunch (£7 each?) in central London for six?
Asked her what she would be using to go "shopping" with... "her birthday money" was the reply..so that's the birthday money for the ipod touch?
Its my only Saturday off that month.
I have just explained to her how much this will all cost and all that DD1 had was a sleepover for her party a couple of weeks ago. Can she maybe take only one friend or just go with one of us? It's not her 18th FFS.
Did not go down well.
I have just been presented with a spreadsheet made by her and DH. Cost is £297!! I am at a loss.
Mum is RP, she is not involved in any of this as far as I am aware as I am certain it would be a non starter with her. She would be horrified at the expense. DD2 is slow to mature (has not started periods yet) and can be attention seeking.
Yes we can afford it, but I am NOT as a matter of principle, spending £300 on this "party". If I give in, where will it stop?
When I say "I" I have a very good job, my DH would not be able to afford all these things without my help.
I have no kids of my own.
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taxiforme · 07/10/2012 00:06
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