My DSD spoke to me for the first time in 2 years this week. We said hello to each other.
The back story is that she was 12 years old when I became a part of her Dads life, she was subject to a great deal of pressure from her mums side of the family and eventually gave her Dad an ultimatum to choose between his partner (me) and her. He refused to give me up for her, she refused to have anything to do with him (or me).
Over the last 6 months, DP has begun to re-establish a relationship with her and I've willingly given them the space in our home to do that by going out or staying out of the way when she visits. We briefly came into contact during the last visit because it was at short notice and I had things to finish off. DP is gradually working towards the idea of DSD spending time with me in the future.
Anyway - against that backdrop - we're looking for someone to pop in and feed/exercise our dogs when we're away from home for a long day next month.
Am I mad to have suggested to DP that DSD might want to do it to earn some extra cash? Based on what he's told me, she's perfectly capable, and is rather pay her than a stranger? Opinions?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Connect with other Mumsnetters here for step-parenting advice and support.
Step-parenting
Am I mad? WSM gone soft!
10 replies
NotaDisneyMum · 05/10/2012 23:14
OP posts:
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.