We've been together 4 1/2 years. When we met my DD was 3 & his DD was 4. They're now 7 & 9. We've since had our own DD now 2.
DSD has always enjoyed telling my DD off & telling tales about her from any early age but they were so silly & obviously untrue back then that she didnt get the result she hoped for most of the time, ie DD being told off.
Over the last few months this has escalated & now she has started saying my DD hits & kicks her (although no one ever sees it) & is building up a posse of sympathisers including her mum, grandparents & now my DH who all believe every word she says, poor little mite. She's twice the size of my DD who swears she hasn't hit her or kicked her. DH won't believe this & says I'm blinkered. DD has never to my knowledge hit another child & dotes on her baby sister, playing gently with her for hours at a time. I know she's not perfect however & can be sulky & moody at times.
I've told DD that she must have no physical contact with DSD or play where they aren't being supervised so that there can be no further "incidents". I've told my DH that unless we're united then the children will be in control of everything & that it's six of one, half a dozen of the other & he wouldn't take sides if they were both our natural children & would do the metaphorical banging off heads together until they get on.
The way it's going DSD will get what she wants which is for DH to spend every other weekend alone with her at her Nana's so she can be fussed over without any competition.
How to resolve this???
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midwife99 · 07/10/2011 21:08
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