My 15 year old dd's natural father has passed away, she last saw him when she was 3 months old, so no recollection.
Her stepfather has been around since she was 5, and legally adopted her when she was 7.
Now I appreciate she's grieving, but she's saying she hates her stepdad and always has done. Her reasons because he doesn't treat her like a normal father would, and he won't play with her the way other dads would.
She is also saying that it is not the same relationship with her half brother (who's younger).
SF is incredibly fair, so much so he's more on her side than his biological child. Maybe he over compensates maybe that's what she picks up on.
Truthfully, my opinion is SF does treat her differently but that is because he is very old fashioned, and she is a girl, and girls should be treated in a gentler fashion and in a different manner to the rough and gruff treatment of a boy.
Has anyone got any experience and can offer advice on this at all?
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Thereyougo · 13/09/2011 22:36
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