DH has arranged to do rugby coaching for our local ?under 12s? on SS?s midweek night. When this first came up, I knew DH was really keen to do the coaching, and I?m very happy for him to do this. I asked what he?d do about SS?s midweek night, and he said he?d speak to SS and get him to swap his midweek night for another night ? fair enough. But on Friday I heard SS telling DH that he doesn?t want to change his midweek night and still wants to come over as usual, even though DH won?t be in. DH caved in straight away, and agreed that he?d leave work early on those evenings, so that he could collect SS from college, and drop him off at our house before going to rugby ??.
Two things here: firstly it seems insane that DH should want to bring SS to our house on an evening when he?s not in (and even more insane that SS should want this to happen), but hey ? the rota always wins; and secondly, (and most importantly) what really makes me angry is that DH and I had already made an agreement between ourselves, that we?d change the midweek night, but SS is allowed to over-rule this.
On a practical level, the above won?t have an enormous impact on me, as it?s DH who does all the running around, and I fully expect (hope?) that SS will spend such evenings in his bedroom on the computer, but it?s the principle that grates ? we go to such stupid lengths to adhere to the rota, and also that DH is quite happy to undermine me.
Sorry for ranting.
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