Does anyone know if it is possible to have frequency of telephone contact between DC's and either/both parents added to a Court Order?
As I expected, the agreement that DSS mum made with DP to call on certain days/times while DSS with us for two weeks has only lasted a few days At DP's request, she nominated the frequency, days and times that she would call when DP picked DSS up from her last week; but she has now started calling as and when again, like she does when he is here EOW, and has been telling SS that she will call again "tomorrow".
The calls are disruptive and upsetting for him; he is anticipating her next call all the time. He runs for the phone when it rings, dropping whatever he is doing, and recently when I answered the phone before he got there, and went to get DP as it was a business call for him, DSS came into the hall and picked up the handset - he started talking to the person on the other end assuming it was his mum!
DSS also gets upset because when his mum does phone him, she tells him how much she is missing him, how much his sister & grandma are missing him, asking him to blow kisses and hug the phone etc. DSS is subdued and withdrawn after each call.
The calls seem to be because his mum needs to keep in touch rather than because he does; but then she can go several days without calling when her work prevents the calls - which must be really difficult for him to understand.
Unfortunately, DP and his exW co-parenting relationship is non-existent; legal action seems to be the only way she is prepared to engage with him, despite repeated attempts on his part.
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Telephone Contact details in a Court Order?
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NotaDisneyMum · 13/08/2011 17:17
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