DSD is 14 soon - she hasnt seen/ spoken to DP for months (after she issued him an ultimatum regarding me).
DP will send her a gift/card for her birthday; our dilemma is whether or not to include my name in the card, too?
On the one hand, sending DSD a gift from both of us reinforces that we are a team and I am a permanent fixture in DPs life, but on the other hand, would it been seen as deliberately disrespecting her wishes by thrusting me into her relationship (no matter how limited) with her dad?
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Birthday gift for DSD
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NotaDisneyMum · 01/08/2011 12:04
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