Hi all
Just wondering how you deal when the other parent lets your step children down (or of course if you have an ex who lets your own children down)? If for example his mum has said no to something, we know she could go but doesn't want to and therefore tells him she 'can't'.
When you have similar situations and your step children ask you about it, do you play along with the fairytale line (I'm sure she would but she just can't), stick to the neutral (I'm sorry you're sad she's not coming) or go for the brutal (I'm guessing not but some might feel like saying 'If she wanted to come she would')??
I should explain that my SS' mum is not very involved, regular contact but rarely does anything extra and says no to 90% of requests from my SS, so we're coming up against this a lot right now.
Thank you!
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Fairytale, neutrality or brutality - what do you do?
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chelen · 30/06/2011 14:27
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