I'm very, very worried.
Step-son (17) had a minor spat with her dad (my DP) about a day that he was supposed to be at our house for a special occasion, but didn't turn up. It really was minor. We're used to it.
Step-son has decided that he wants all contact with us to stop.
He and I have always got on well, as far as I'm aware. He confides in me a little bit and when he and his dad have fallen out in the past, he's always made it clear that he's ok with me and his little sister (mine and his dad's DD). In fact, I thought we had quite a laugh together. However, he's now told me never to contact him.
I'm terrified for my family's sake that we'll never see him again. His sister, my DD (just turned three) is desperate to see him. He's her hero and she misses him every day. She keeps running into his room to check he's not hiding in there. It's heartbreaking for me. As she won't have any other siblings (I can't have any more children) DP and I always made it clear to her that she has a big brother who loves her very much. Turns out that isn't true, apparently. How on earth do you explain that to a three year old?! She 'called' him on her toy phone this morning to say that she loves him and that she wants him to come over to play. :(
He lives in the same town as us. His mum leaves him to his own devices and won't get involved. The relationship is amicable but cool between her and DP. They'd split-up many, many years before I came on the scene, by the way, so there are no problems there, as far as I'm aware.
I don't really know what I'm asking. It's just "Help!" really!
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BoojaBooja · 29/06/2011 23:12
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