DSS has asked to stay over at our 2 weekends ago, and said it was "ok" (he's a nice lad, btw, now he talks to me) AND now DSD1 has invited me to her 18th birthday- as an afterthought (i.e. said to DP she doesn't mind if I come), but what a change from the screaming heebyjeebies she would have about me only 3 months ago!
I'm not putting my hopes up, but it looks as if she's GROWING UP! Good lord, I thought we'd never get to any reasonable relationship! It will make life SO much easier for DP as well if this continues, please keep all fingers/ toes crossed for me (us), so pleased!!!