I'm new to MN as only discovered I'm pregnant a week ago. I have a 17 yr old step daughter and this is my first baby. SD is usually pretty polite to me (don't want to overstate it - she definitely doesn't like/love me but she has lived with us full time for nearly four years and we've reached a live-and-let-live way of doing things where I ask very little of her and am super-nice in return for a quiet life!). She's much more vile volatile with her dad though and thinks nothing of screaming rows with him.
I was just wondering whether anyone had any advice for breaking the news. For example, how long can we leave it before telling her without making things worse for keeping it a secret? Not sure I can face the noise yet! I'm only five weeks and pretty much symptom free so far so she's not likely to guess straightaway.
I've been reading a lot of posts and so many things you have all said ring true for me that this seems like a good place to get advice. Thanks!
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What will telling my sd I'm pregnant be like?
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alittlebitpregnant23 · 25/05/2011 18:28
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