I have 3 DC's 2 boys one girl OH also has 3, 2 girls, one boy - we also both have our children with two previous partners making 4 ex's.
OH is in the forces so is away a lot, his kids live at opposite ends of the country, but he has them at mine (he doesn't has his own place as he lives on the base)as much as is possible. We have the girls (4 and 6) more often that his DS (15). The last 6 months we have had his girls every other weekend (more or less) which at times has been really stressful as I am catering for 7 people and I work full time so the weekends with 5 kids are not a break for me.
I love his kids though and I feel its important where his job permits for them to have as regular access to his as possible.
Thing is his DD2 (4) just gets on with it and it a pretty tough little cookie and no trouble at all, his DD1 is a PITA a lot of the time and he puts her needs over and above the other childrens allowing her to winge and moan and have her own way constantly. She won't leave his side even when we take them out for the day to soft play for example. He lets her stay up really late (as late as the other but my eldest is 13 and she is just 6) and she then gets up at 7am and comes iunto our room and wake us and everyone else up. TBH I am not comfortabler with her climbing into bed with us and I just feel really sorry for his DD2 who his DD1 pushes away from him all the time and she always gets left out but never complains.
I know I sound like a bitch - but every time she comes now its just grating on me - I know she misses her dad and there have been times when maybe she didn't know whenshe might bsee him again which can't have helped but sometimes she just does my head in!!
Argh - thats better - I will go to hell I am sure as she is just 6 yr old girl who misses her dad.
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Ladyanonymous · 29/11/2010 09:25
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