Actually thought I had better start giving Christmas some thought.
We have a system where one year, DSC come to us on the afternoon of the 23rd and stay until 10am on Xmas morning and then go back to Mum's until 10am on Boxing Day, then they swap round next year. Personally, I think the routine is designed for the adults so that they can both see their children on Christmas day but as no presents can go between the two houses and DP insists on taking them to their dead grandmother (that they never met) grave also on Xmas morning, I really pity the poor kids not getting to play with their presents.
DS will probably be with us on Xmas day and visit his Dad on Boxing day for a day or so.
I haven't volunteered to do Christmas dinner as that will mean cooking for a minimum of 13 , but think I will have to give it a go next year as it's not fair to impose us lot on everyone else!
Personally in an ideal world, I'd have DSC stay all day Christmas day, cook fish fingers and use my time to spend the day playing with their toys with them and generally enjoy some fun and games. I'd then use Boxing day as a day to get drunk socialise with DP family and vice versa next year.
So what is your routine?
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theredhen · 26/11/2010 09:27
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