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Find out how MNers got on at Take Five’s fraud event. PLUS non-attendees chance to win £150 John Lewis voucher! NOW CLOSED

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EllieMumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 29-Nov-17 11:50:44

This is the feedback thread for the MNers who attended an exclusive event where they were given tips and advice for protecting themselves against financial scams and fraud, as well as enjoying special treats to ‘take five’ out of their busy lives.

Here’s what Take Five have to say: “Our research shows that many people do not feel confident that they could identify a fraudulent approach. Therefore the event will aim to empower and inspire parents to feel better prepared to ‘confidently challenge’ fraudsters, and recognise signs of fraud - remembering the mantra – My Money? My Info? I don’t think so.”

Attendees, please answer the questions below:
- Can you tell us what the key message for Take Five was?
- Do you think having attended the event would help you identify fraud and scams in the future?
- What would you say you learnt the most about at the event?
- Would you say that you know more about fraud and scams since attending the event?
- Following the event, how would you describe what you’ve learnt - in a nutshell - to a friend who didn’t attend?

Non-attendees - To be entered into a prize draw where one MNer will win a £150 John Lewis voucher, please share on the thread how you 'take five' out of your busy lives to relax.

All attendees who post answers to the above questions below will be entered into a prize draw where one MNer will win a £300 John Lewis voucher.

If you weren’t able to attend, you can watch the talk on fraud here.

Thanks and good luck!


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EllieMumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 14-Feb-18 10:41:00

Congratulations to @Winningbeauty for winning the £300 John Lewis voucher! smile

EllieMumsnet (MNHQ) Wed 14-Feb-18 10:37:49

Congratulations to @ladygoingGaga for winning the non-attendee £150 John Lewis voucher smile

Easylikeasonntagmorgan Sun 17-Dec-17 07:25:32


I take five by relaxing with a cup of coffee and a book while my daughter has a nap. When I have the opportunity I also try to go for a walk to de-stress.

clopper Sat 16-Dec-17 17:21:56

Non attendee
I take 5 by reading or going on mumsnet

malisa Sat 16-Dec-17 17:09:49

Non attendee - For me the best way to relax is to put my feet up and watch good movie or read book and have a cup of green tea. I think is great if you can find a bit of time to relax but with children this is not always possible. So I have to wait until they go to bed and then I can do a bit of knitting. ( my newly found hobby)

typo55 Fri 15-Dec-17 21:21:52

nonatendee here - my take five are...
1. cup of tea or hot drink equivalent
2. hot shower or bath (essential for the winter)
3. having a lovely thick blanket to rest under
4. a good book that I can get stuck in to
5. and of course mumsnet! smile

bexthefirestarter Fri 15-Dec-17 21:08:17

I practice mindfulness for a few minutes. It all about bringing awareness back into the present and stop your mind racing. I'll look at the leaves of trees blowing in the wind or feel the ground under my feet. I might listen to the birds or notice the breeze on my face. It doesnt matter what you focus on it just matters that for a moment you take a step out of the crazy world and really notice it and how beautiful it is.

dilydaly Fri 15-Dec-17 21:00:22

As daft as it sounds, I take five to relax by taking the dog to the toilet ! I live in a very quiet area and have a long garden, so a little stroll to take the dog to the loo can be very relaxing for me :D Thanks smile

Clara04 Fri 15-Dec-17 19:43:53

I take five by having a sing along (badly) to catchy songs. Also with wine!

StillNoFuckingEyeDeer Fri 15-Dec-17 19:09:26

Non-attendee. I take a bit more than 5 by going for a run to clear my head. I have to get up early and I often don't feel like getting out of bed, particularly if DC3 has had me up a lot in the night, but I never regret it and always feel better for it. It's a great way to start the day it gives me a bit of peace and relaxation as well as exercise.

Cantuccit Fri 15-Dec-17 13:30:20

Non-attendee. I take five by getting a large mug of hot chocolate, my favourite chocolates, a box set on the telly, and Mumsnet on my iPad.

Belmo Fri 15-Dec-17 11:15:41

Non/attendee: I'm not great at relaxing, but I love to have a cup of 'nighttime' tea ( am obsessed with the pukka stuff) to chill me out before bed.

SummersMumma Fri 15-Dec-17 10:58:22

The key message was to take 5 to consider the situation before proceeding.

Most scams rely on rash decisions and sadly earlier this year I was scammed by fraudulent bailiffs of over £7000 which was my life savings when I thought I was acting in kindness to help a friend - said friend has since left me to deal with the consequences on my own.
Had I attended this event beforehand I could have prevented the whole sorry situation.
I will not get caught out again thanks to this event.

Thanks for hosting the event, I found it helpful and informative - there are some terrible people out there!

Enigma222 Fri 15-Dec-17 10:18:03

Non attendee

I take 5 by putting the kids to bed at night, putting my feet up and a nice warm cuppa to wind down.

Blahblahblueblee Thu 14-Dec-17 22:05:46

Non attendee: I either read a book, come on mn, have a bath or on the rarest occasion do my nails smile

sb4278 Thu 14-Dec-17 19:12:33

Be cautious when checking your emails
Double check before clicking on anything
Sounds too good to be true, it probably is!

EllieMumsnet (MNHQ) Thu 14-Dec-17 12:38:33

This is @ASausageDogCalledBeans feedback for the Take Five event:

- Can you tell us what the key message for Take Five was?
To take five minutes before giving out information, trust your instinct and don't be pressured into going against your gut reaction. Be cautious and don't be afraid to call things to a halt.

- Do you think having attended the event would help you identify fraud and scams in the future?
Yes I do, it made me think about how exposed we are to fraud on a daily basis. Criminals are getting clever and finding new ways to get to you, eg making their email or phone number appear to be from a genuine organization.

- What would you say you learnt the most about at the event?
Organisations don't ask you for account information over email or phone, they would already have that information if they were genuine, its taught me to be wary and question things.

- Would you say that you know more about fraud and scams since attending the event?
Yes it has really opened my mind and is a very valid lesson for me.

- Following the event, how would you describe what you’ve learnt - in a nutshell - to a friend who didn’t attend?
Take 5 (simple and to the point) cant think of a better description.

FizzySmiles Thu 14-Dec-17 11:25:37

Non attendance

I have a nice warm cuppa and play a game on my phone 😉 this rarely happens though 😂

peronel Thu 14-Dec-17 06:47:16

Walking the dog is an everyday piece of 'me-time' when I know I am able to relax for half an hour or so.

ohlittlepea Wed 13-Dec-17 14:20:14

My best take 5 advice is making a huge cuppa. Youre not allowed to move till its finished smile bliss.

Bowerbird5 Wed 13-Dec-17 07:26:00

Non attender.

I take five by singing. I go to choir every week and it has made such a difference to my well being in the last five years. We are a Community Choir so also go and sing for others in care homes, supermarkets, the city and the hospital and most other places we are invited. It is up lifting for us and other people seem to enjoy it. Last time we did a flash mob in the hospital ( staff knew) and we made a lady patient cry, with joy!
I might add I thought I wouldn't get scammed however I was upset, shaken by the cleverness of someone claiming to be from HMRC but luckily I smelt a rat. He was very convincing at the beginning though and I think others may not be so lucky as to realise it was a scam. I informed the police afterwards.
I was quite shaken by the threats at the beginning of the conversation and found it difficult to concentrate which I think they do on purpose to throw you off clear thinking. I asked him several times if it was a scam and usually they hang up then but he was persistent in the end I went along with it on the phone then thought about it and then didn't respond. I went to my friends to tell her and when I returned there had been thirty two missed calls at a withheld number! I felt very stupid afterwards but thought how vulnerable ladies like my friend looks after could be taken in.

BlackeyedPetitsPois Tue 12-Dec-17 21:50:12

I take 5 by having a cuppa and browse on mumsnet!

IceBearRocks Tue 12-Dec-17 16:37:49

With a severly disabled child I need to keep my body and brain fit!!!
I take my 5 ...going to the gym! Great for my mental health too !

BlueTablecloth Tue 12-Dec-17 15:37:46

i sit down with my laptop and a coffee

TellMeItsNotTrue Tue 12-Dec-17 01:02:00

Does escaping to the toilet for 5 seconds before the muuuuuummmmm starts count? grin

I take 5 by doing a quick mindfulness body scan when I can, it really helps and I am more likely to stick to 5 minutes than if I did anything else, and I feel the benefit afterwards

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