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EmmaMumsnet · 01/11/2017 10:49

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Sleepysausage · 01/11/2017 15:14

You don't need a changing bag. I didn't believe my friend when she told this and bought one anyway. It was a waste of money. All DD has ever needed is a couple of nappies, wipes and a change of clothes. A lovely big handbag is much nicer and it removes the temptation of taking too much stuff out with us.

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FridgeCut · 01/11/2017 16:53

Baby vests have an envelope neck so can be taken off downwards so can be removed easily when a poonami strikes.

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Hmumto3 · 01/11/2017 17:01

I discovered soap is the best at removing poo stains wash with soap if it's really stubborn leave the stain soaked for a while and come back to it all poo stains will come out

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CheeseEMouse · 01/11/2017 20:44

Trust your instinct. And don't feel you have to be doing stuff if baby is sleeping on you.

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Standingoutsidethefire · 01/11/2017 21:09

Don't stress about what the baby books say, you're baby hasn't read them. Trust your instincts.

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Standingoutsidethefire · 01/11/2017 21:10

*your not you're Blush

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wobblywonderwoman · 01/11/2017 21:11

Try and get out everyday. Even to walk to a shop.
Pack baby bag as soon as you get home and leave it at the door. The pre prepared milk is great.

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minceandpotatoes · 01/11/2017 21:24

That you must look after yourself in order to look after your baby, and you need to eat well and drink lots when you are breastfeeding. That was the advice of a lovely health visitor who insisted that I made myself some cheese and pickle sandwiches while she held my baby during a visit.

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NerrSnerr · 02/11/2017 07:19

Don’t listen to people talking about their tiny babies sleeping through, some people count 11pm-4am or similar sleeping through. It’s normal for a baby to wake up at night.

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defineme · 02/11/2017 07:26

Vests etc have got those slits in the shoulders so you can remove them downwards in a pooh explosion emergency!
More general: routines help mental health and aim for good enough rather than perfection!

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INeedNewShoes · 02/11/2017 07:28

Every day is a clean slate with a baby. Don't assume that because yesterday was tough that today will be.

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OuchBollocks · 02/11/2017 07:31

Just do what you need to do to get by and don't worry that your baby will be doing something 'forever' - everything is a phase and everything changes eventually.

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daisygirlmac · 02/11/2017 07:33

This too shall pass - from all of mumsnet Grin

In all seriousness, that did help me. Somehow just having the reassurance that nothing lasts forever helped me to get through the really tough bits when he was brand new and I didn’t have a clue what I was doing

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Hairq · 02/11/2017 07:38

"Do what is right for your baby". This is the best advice ever. You could try routines and controlled crying and follow all the weaning tips on the world, but they might not work for your child. Follow them and your instinct and you can't go wrong.

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asuwere · 02/11/2017 08:09

Baby vests going down is the most useful advice I ever received! (On DC3! Blush)

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MargoLovebutter · 02/11/2017 10:13

I've got two: 1. Any phase that you find difficult, won't last long. 2. If you get it wrong every now and then, don't worry because your baby won't remember.

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KnobJockey · 02/11/2017 10:14

Don't worry if you don't feel the same as your friends did. My friend wanted to close doors, hide away for a couple of weeks before introducing everyone to the little one. I was up, walking to Asda and taking mine to meet extended family on day 3! Everyone is different.

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LaNouba · 02/11/2017 10:38

Ignore that competitive friend who has their child sitting up first, rolling over, crawling, walking and talking first. They all develop at different rates.

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CMOTDibbler · 02/11/2017 10:41

Don't sweat the small stuff - and it's all small stuff!

But the best thing anyone told me, was my colleague told me just how much blood to expect afterwards, and to get puppy pads to sit on. She was right, and it would have been a shock as to just how much there was

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kateandme · 02/11/2017 11:10

your going to get it right but your the only one when it comes down to it that will always get it right.

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PutYourBracesTogether · 02/11/2017 11:55

Trust your instincts really helped me to find a rhythm in those early days.
It was invaluable when I was unsure of myself.
Also to sleep when the baby sleeps..... probably saved my sanity Smile

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MrsFrTedCrilly · 02/11/2017 12:13

Baby vests coming off from the shoulders down, best tip ever.
Also my very wise 90 year old neighbor told me to disregard the baby books and schedules because my child hadn’t read them! She also made me endless cakes and cups of tea bless her!! Smile

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sharond101 · 02/11/2017 12:48

Go with the flow, all babies are different.

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Wishingandwaiting · 02/11/2017 12:50

Start agentle routine from very very early on. Then it’s all they know.

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FizzySmiles · 02/11/2017 13:01

Cherish every moment, they grow to fast. If you're baby wants a cuddle then give cuddles. Don't take the baby years for granted as you'll soon wish you could go back and give those missed cuddles - Definitely the best advice and I am cherishing their younger years as much as possible! X

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