My 15 yr old son was diagnosed with ADHD (inattentive type) in late Feb 2016. Actually, I suddenly realised I might have it (at 48 🤔!) and the trail led to his having it too. Three months before the onslaught on GSCEs!
Bloody nightmare but we were over a barrel and had to give medication a try. The diagnosis is what it is and we are helping him all we can, in order to move on. The dilemma...
His school (fee paying) is taking no responsibility for non-diagnosis and have been virtually no help in supporting him. Why keep him there you might ask?! However, the meds have meant that he is finally settled there - after a lot of tears (on my part) about him not settling (for five years - always told he was just a typical teen!) and many visits to the school to ask for their help and advice.
The major problem - if he does not gets As in his four chosen A level subjects (and a total of 48 points in his GCSEs), he will be turfed out! After nine years in the school. Make me feel sick just writing this!
He is a smart boy but, despite our best efforts, he did not do enough work towards the exams and I am having sleepless nights about this. If the 💩 hits the fan on 25th August (which I hope it doesn't), I need an armoury of stuff to throw at the Head, to keep him in!
Does anyone have any ideas? Do we have any grounds to threaten to sue the school for non-diagnosis (as a last resort)?
Any advice/support on this would be amazing i.e. other points I can use in our favour. I haven't slept well for weeks, panicking about it. Thank you, thank you!
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HendricksandTonic · 18/08/2016 05:04
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