My DS is 14 with ASD and is hugely shouty and agressive. Everything we ask him to do is a battle, homework, tidying room (all the usual stuff) he doesnt do much around the house
Everyone is a 'stupid moron' (his actual words) - today he has punched and kicked me as i asked him to empty the kitchen bin (SAHD has D&V, so i have made him stay out of the kitchen) All i get is its not my job to empty the bins , its Younger Brothers job (YB job is the small wasterpaper bins around the house, not the big kitchen bin) I have explained YB went shopping for lunch today, and helped to prepare lunch, but still "its not my job its his" and "I do more around the house, i feed the cats" - (5 mins in the morning, and evening)
He's getting bigger, and i worry about him. I dont know how to help him - am at the point where i want to pack a bag for him and phone social services to take him away, even though i know if i leave it for a bit he will be back to being lovely - i dont know what do to, i cant live in a house where he does nothing because we are scared to ask him
He wont get off his pc and spends all his time shouting at it, and when i try and remove him from it he gets aggressive
I have a supportive DH (his bio dad in case it matters), and he has a younger brother.
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ASDMumDS14 · 07/05/2016 14:06
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