I am laying here in tears with my 12yr old Son next to me. After yet another evening of unreasonable abuse and disrespect from my Son I can barely breathe and having heart palpitations. I eventually shouted at him after swearing, disrespect, swearing, nastiness to me and his brother and I feel like a complete failure. He has really bad ticks and behaviour problems and I'm pretty sure he has adhd, huge anxieties and very bad anger problems and no-one will help us. He recently excluded ftom school for stealing from a local shop. I can't quite believe this is my Son I'm talking about. I'm do sad, ashamed and disappointed with me and him.
He's been rejected by camhs 5 times as he doesn't meet the threshold, the couselling at school seems pointless, tried private counselling but it was very expensive and the cheaper counselling was useless.
His behaviour and anger are now affecting not only his life but mine and his younger brother and my personal life. I sometimes think he's just awful and naughty but most people think there is something else there.
I don't really have a point to this, just feel rejecteded, sad and a failure that he's turning out like this and that I can't help him.
I can't believe we can get no proper help and that I clearly am failing so badly.
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tobbay · 08/02/2016 22:48
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