My daughter has velocardiofacial syndrome otherwise known as 22q11 or digeorge. She has a congenital heart defect, mild developmental delay and has suffered with juvenile arthritis which has left her with hip damage. She had heart surgery as a baby and is due to have major heart surgery within the next year or so. She has always enjoyed school and is now doing A levels (Y13) although she finds organising her study difficult.
My daughter is finding things tough at the moment, especially since she turned 18. She says she doesn't want to grow up and wishes she could turn the clock back. There is a widening gap between her and her peers. They are all going out dating and partying and my daughter turns down any invites to go out as she is too nervous. She doesn't drink alcohol and uses this as an excuse not to go out with friends. She is also not keen on learning to drive as she is afraid of having an accident.
I try to encourage her to be more independent but progress is slow. I also have a 14 yr old son who is growing up fast. He is now more mature and capable than my daughter which she finds difficult to deal with. I am so worried about her future. Is there anyone out there who is facing similar issues?
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!8 yr old daughter with velocardiofacial syndrome doesn't want to grow up
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Sueval · 14/09/2011 12:33
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