Looking for a guide

[Loobie]

My ds1 who is 9 has autism amongst other things,i also have a 7yro ds and dd who is 2 1/2,my worry is her,her speech pattern is following the same as ds1 and she has shown other little things that he done too,so basically from you wise people im looking for some kind of tick scale thingy i can look up to see how much she fits or doesnt to either give me something to work with or dispel my rapidly growing fears.Please.

[Saker]

There is this though I don't know how old the child needs to be for it to be relevant.

Sorry you're worried.