Hi don't post often but feel need to ask advice. I have been having a community nursery nurse who gives me an hour respite and does play therapy. Initially ds(asd age4) was hyperactive and being defiant to her but after consulting the SCD team and a slight change of tatic he now accepts her visits and looks forward to them. Which is great as someone else takes the responsibility for an hour a week, he gets help and i don't have to be on edge. At last i have some kind of control with behaviour at home and in public ie. plan journey like mission impossible with a backup plan and escape route. Now she wants to change everything as in change his bedtimes as its too late he should be in bed and lie there (he can only do 9 hours straight), i should take him to the park everyday to wear him out, swimming, shops, picnic all summer holidays ideas. I don't even know where to start with the conversation, tried to explain i never took my nt kids out as much as she is suggesting apparently she did and thats normal? Plus i have so much other stuff i do play therapy, activities, learning games etc. Now im thinking were my occasional ventures not satisfactory parenting? All this extra stuff is going to make my life so much stressfull than it already is. Anyone else's input would be good
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