Just feeling sorry for myself (again).
Fed up with being fobbed or reg dd2's education.
Fed up with DH for not helping me with the dd's but is happy to sit and watch as i struggle with dd1's behaviour.
Fed up with people thinking they know best for my dd's when they have no experience of ASD.
Fed up with having no social life, being a SAHM and carer.
Fed up with not being able to take the girls away for a few days because dh doesn't want to go anywhere.
I feel like bundling the girls in the car and driving far far away , i know i can't run away from things but at the moment i don't feel strong enough to fight any more .
Sorry for the rant but this is the only place i can do it, i have no one in RL who i can talk to, my mum doesn't listen and seems to think the girls don't have any problems, my husband seems to think there are no problems but spends most of his time moaning about the dd's being to noisy, to messy etc but doesn't show willing in helping me handle their behaviour.
Dd1 is pushing me to the limit with the continues talking, answering back, not going to sleep and only wanting mummy.
Dd2 is talking more and more which makes me happy as 6 months ago she was non-verbal but dh just moans as dd2 spends hours (at night) singing nursery rhymes and mimicking things from the TV.
Yesterday i spoke to the head of dd2's school (for next sept)_only to be told they may not have the money to fund a 1:1 for her next september (i am trying to get her statemented).
I just feel like i am doing all this fighting for the dd's by myself and dh thinks because he works he hasn't got time to support us at home, i know he supports us with money and he works hard but i need support at home.
Thanks for listening, i could write more but i don't want to bore you , i'm sure a lot of you are going through the ame if not worse.
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