hi everyone, dont know if anyone will remember me, but here goes anyway. my dd has been going through the dx process since dec 08 and i have been following these forums since then!! dd is 10 years old and fits aspergers in virtually everyway, she hates noise, light, touch of any kind and does not socialise out of school at all. she spends her evenings on her pc or throwing a ball against her bedroom wall! anyway we have been through the ADOS where she failed to take part in any of the activities, ie talking or having an imgination. OT say she deffo has a sensory disorder and SALTs report say she is deffo on ASD spectrum. now we come to the ed phy, she says because she functions in school she is fine! can i just add in here that every morning in our house is a nightmare as dd is extremely school phobic - she hates it, says her friends are different now - i know theyre not, its just she cant really talk to them now iyswim. she hates changing classrooms and doesnt do PE anymore as she hates the rough and tumble and touch, and also not knowing what they will be doing!
we had the multi dis hearing 2 weeks ago and they said as she functions in school that she doesnt have aspergers, but i know that from following threads on here that these children learn to cope in school and save their meltdowns for home! we also recieved the ed phy report on dd and it just like reading a personal attack on me . in it she states that dd says her friend comes down every nite to the house - she doesnt! that i suffered post natal dep so instead she could be suffering from attachment disorder , that as i present as anxious, this is shown in the numerous phone calls i have made to her and other professionals - emm yes as i want help for my daughter and am very worried about her -that i am making her anxious and like this!!!! can i just add here that everything is kept very positive at home and dd in no way knows how worried we are about her!
there is so much more that i could write that was in the report, but i am just glad you have read this far! i am going to write a letter back to the ed pyh stating my thoughts on her report and if anyone has any pointers for that or about dd i would be very grateful
thanks for reading so far
bev
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beverleyjayne · 26/10/2009 09:39
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