Oh, and Freaks, Geeks and Asperger's syndrome by Luke Jackson who was an Aspie teen when he wrote it and is now presumably an Aspie adult. His mother wrote a book called Multicoloured mayhem. Temple Grading is an autistic adult who has written stuff as well...I'll have another think and pop back later.
I have just been recommended by an OT a book called Aspergers Syndrome and Difficult Moments which is specifically about meltdown and various general angst related behaviours which I cant help thinking would help in teen years. I've been finding it really useful though it is not really about development per se.