could use some advice from you experienced people out there!
DD3 is 5.2. She has just gone in to year 1 at school. We have LOTS of concerns about DD , and have doen since she was about 2.
I will try to be brief here, but basically we have concerns regarding her emotional and social development, communication, behaviour and accademic progress. At home she can be EXTREMELY difficult to handle, melt downs all the time over nothing, struggles to communicate her needs etc...You have to be REALLy specific when telling her to do things,she is always winding up her siblings - usually unintentionally etc... and lots more.
At school so far her behaviour hasnt caused significant problems. She doesnt really have many friends though, and is often on her own at playtimes(I see her when I drop my younger DD to nursery)BUT accademicaly she is struggling. I went to discuss with her reception teacehr last year and was told that Yes she is significantly behind most of the other children, but she may catch up so no need to worry at this stage.
Since moving into yr1 she has begun to dislike school (previously seemed happy) and cries every morning, saying she cant do the work. I again have been to see her new teacher to discuss the situation. Again have been told - Yes she is behind, but she may well catch up. She has suggessted waiting until the summer term to see how she is doing before taking tings further. My concern is that she isnt ,making much progress - why do I keep being told to just wait and see what happens?
I have this week been to the GP and he is referring her for developmental assessment at our local unit, but I am not sure how to take things further with school. Whatever her problems are I wnt her to make progress at her own level. I need them to work with her on things that will make a difference for her. For example they have been sendin ghome ridiculous spellings for her to learn when she cant even form most of her letter properly.
I need some advice about what the options are with schools for getting her extra help or proper support. I am fed up with being told to just wait because it isnt helping my DD at all.....
Anyone got any suggestions...this is all quite new to me as my older DC are all academically very able...so not sure how all this works. I just feel so sad and frustrated for DD......
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galen · 08/10/2009 13:17
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