Alex is my youngest..as yet not diagnosed etc.... but one of the Autism teachers at the outreach team agrees he is 'showing signs of AS'
So......... tonight he lashed out at me (punching screaming) because i had made jacket potatoes instead of pancakes.(background to this is that a few days ago i had said i'd do a 'treat' tea of sugar/lemon pancakes when they went back to school...then in usual forgetful fashion...i forgot....but ofcourse Alex hadn't.)
So in the midst of this...which if watched as a fly on the wall would almost seem funny as he has such a cute high pitched babyish squealy screech...i know he's my son...and i don't want to be big headed...but he is cute!!! So whilst being hit and screamed at..i am still looking at him as my 'cute baby'...who's 6 now...and appears like a 4 yr old.
So...bragging over...her's my question (yes..there is a point to this)
These hysterical outburst are getting more common...and i accept them as clear demonstration of his frustrations at the world surrounding him (I promised pancakes...then broke my promise....that's how he sees it)
But......is it possible that he ONLY lets rip with me (because he can????) As i've heard none of this happening at school etc (though he is withdrawn out of assembly most days and had to visit the head twice today) School as you know...refuse to accept him as being possible as...so feel they'd probably not tell me even if he did have these outburst.
So any of you with similar experiences out there let me know... Leigh my midle son for example rarely shows the 'out of control' behaviours at school...so i am beginning to feel paranoid that i am the catylyst due to my own difficulties which make me forgetful etc....and feeling very responsible for all going on.... and though i know i am NOT a refrigerater mum etc...i feel that i may be a Microwave Mum...in that i seem to heatr things up a bit too fast.
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Screaming/Hitting Out...But ONLY at ME! (MrsF is Effing Confused)
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TheRealMrsF · 07/06/2005 20:42
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