Hi
Looking for some advice/shared experiences.
My DS is 6 and has possible AS ? undergoing assessment at the moment.
He is a quiet and good tempered boy but sensory problems (food/tactile/smell) are his main issue with some hypotonia/ hypermobility/coordination issues.
Today, his teacher had a chat with me after school as he had been given a ?red card? for grabbing another boys? lip in class when he was teasing him. The boy?s lip was scratched. The other boys is very bouncy and often teases DS who can?t stand it.
DS never gets into trouble at this school but he did a bit when he was in his reception year at another school when he was always being told not to retaliate when hit by others!
DS has told me a couple of times recently that people have pushed him over or sat on him at playtime and he hasn?t had the strength to push them off so has lashed out rather than telling the teacher.
He just doesn?t seem to know how to deal with this sort of thing. To disengage and tell the teacher. I explained this to his teacher who was really good and said she could see what I meant and that she agreed he didn?t seem to have the skills to deal with it.
Would you say this is part of possible AS? How would you deal with it? He was definitely out of order today as no one had hit him. It was silly teasing but I have told him about retaliating and about not getting involved but he seems to hit back when others t him and then he gets told off. He never stands up for himself when he?s told off either
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Possible AS and retaliating when teased
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debs40 · 08/07/2009 15:48
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