I am having a wallow
Need a kick up the bum and to be reminded that DS WILL progress and the problems WILL be sorted!!
Things seemed to be getting so much better and he was making good progress with socialising, speech etc but this week it has all come crashing down around my ears and made me realise again that DS is ASD and that it hasn't gone away....know what I mean?
For example his behaviour this week has been challenging at home and playschool with pushing, over excitement etc. It has hit home to playschool at last that he cannot re-tell a story unless its done by echolalia, cannot predict what may happen on the next page of a story, cannot relate very well his experiences to whats going on around him and doesn't respond correctly to whats being said to him.
Examples of the last 2 things are:
Its bug & butterfly week theme at playschool this week and we saw a stag beetle on the way to school. Showed DS and said we must tell playschool we saw that musn't we?! Got to playschool and had no idea at all when asked what he saw and would have no concept to link that to the theme.
He also just seems unable to hear whats being said to him and talks at them rather than respond correctly. EG, talking about releasing butterflies into the garden he replies with "the caterpillar likes to slide down the stairs" . That sort of thing.
It just all seems so unsurmountable at the moment and so isolating. Should I ring his SALT back up (she has not done anything with him except give me some handouts to do with him re speech) and ask her or is this not her field?
HV says she will get the FIRST team involved after Sept if there's no improvement so they can get some things in place to help with the transition to school but I don't really know what that entails and what they will do.
Left playschool in floods of tears today looking like the sad mother who can't cope when I tried to talk to his teacher about it. They are very good and supportive towards me and DS so I should feel OK but I don't!! Am so afraid to pick him up today for fear of being pulled aside and even if I am not I just dread the next time. I was so close to not sending him today so I could get out of that worry for the day
God am so deep in self pity today its unbearable.....tell me I am not the only one who feels like this at times and that things will get better!! Lie if you have to , xx
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Really need some reassuring words as am having a bad week.....
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Barmymummy · 02/07/2009 11:20
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