hello all, our 6 yo DD was adopted a year and a half ago and already diagnosed with sensory integration problems (having OT therapy now), but other than that nothing else and still i feel like smth is not just right. she wouldn't play by herself, she doesn't ask any kind of questions, or asking for help, she doesn't take any sort of initiative (i do understand she was only for a year and a half with us, but i was hoping she would START at least to register all those little things we tried to teach her and apply them little by little according to her age). what scares me is that she never tries to think on her own about this and that, even if her actions would turn out wrong. she memorises certain things by heart (after a million times of repeating those to her, but even those take so long that i could scream!), but otherwise no signs of creative thinking (sometimes she tries to destroy/break appart things, and i could see a sign of curiosity in that, but even those, they never show any creating impulse, but rather just destructing, and she looses interest directly after). We tried charts, stickers, ice cream for asking questions, nothing really worked. She is a lovely kid sitting right now nicely in her room to let me work, but i'm pretty sure by the time i get back to her, there will be nothing to see there, no real activity other than her spreading around toys and staring at them and not knowing what to do more. what shall i do? how can i help her? it can't be just the adoption situation and the snesory integration problem. can it be something else?
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6 year old, no sign of initiative, curiosity, creative play, please help, i am desperate
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joburg · 01/06/2009 15:21
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