After reading all the posts of us being down and upset by little things etc, I thought we were doing fine..... BUT my SIL is down to visit with my 2 nieces - one niece is 2 months older than dd1 and the other one is about 10 months old. With dn1 I see the huge gap between her and dd1 and it makes me a little sad although I know how far dd1 has come. What brought it all home to me was that in terms of walking etc my 10 month old dn is at the same stage as dd1. I just realise how far she has yet to go.
Poor dh I came home and just bawled last night. First time since just after dd was born!! That is not me - usually I am so positive as I can see the huge leaps she has made just in the ten months or so we have been here in Australia.
Dh bless him tried to make me feel better by getting out our book that deals with gross motor skills in children with ds. He then looked at the development chart and said in fact dd1 is about average or just above for a child with ds and she was doing well.
I know she is but it still makes me You guys understand it....
Sorry to add to the gloom and down on this topic but I just felt I had to share.
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eidsvold · 14/04/2005 22:32
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