I'm guessing from other threads that this is a common feeling at the moment so thought some story swapping might help us all. Also there's another (pefectly innocent and nice, pleasant) thread going on at the moment where everyone is saying don't worry it gets easier when they get older. anyway that phrase always makes me want to stick my head in a bucket of cold vomit so thought i'd seek out others rather than turning into the mad muttering woman in the corner. Feeling the need to hide in the SN world for a while (i've been venturing out to much its turning me mad!)
Went to the beach yesterday afternoon. was a bit peed off at there being no free disabled parking when i knew we'd be there for minutes, but anyway. ds2 was asleep so we left him asleep (he's never actually been onto a beach with a bucket and spade and isn't bothered about missing a walk), and I sat and fed ds3 in the car. dh took ds1 to the beach- well almost- ds1 refused to go over the top of a sand dune and just ran up and down it for about 20 minutes, then we went home. Whilst dh was off with ds2 I watched a family of 3 girls- about the same ages as my ds' get out of their car, gather together buckets and spades and set off. they did thing we can't do (like pile out of the car and stand around waiting whilst the buggy was put up etc). I sat feeding and watching and pondered that they were having the family experience that we expected. not sad really, bit envious, but more feeling like we're out of step.
ah well off to count some blessings (a friend is waiting for test results for her dd and is "hoping" it's Retts- so you can imagine what the alternatives are)- we have many!
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