I am so worried it's making me sick.
Quick background. Dd is 9, year 5 in a language unit. She is mostly ms except for social skills and some language work.
My dd is very anxious and when things go wrong in ms they really do iykwim.
We have visited all of our options and basically have 2 choices
Choice 1:
Local mixed secondary school with brand new asd unit opening in September. Not seen inside yet but have visited. Dd would have to be in ms all of the time except for social/language skills type lessons. School is huge, bell goes off 23 times (sounds mad but biggy for me as dd hates noise). There are 1500 children in the school. Academically I know dd will cope as she doesn't have learning difficulties but she does have significant sensory needs and I think would find it really hard.
Choice 2:
Localish special needs private speech/language/communication school. Went to visit last week and they felt dd would suit their criteria. It had a lovely family type feel, max 8 in a class, 120 in whole school. Dd loved it! Onsite they have 4 OT's and about 15 SALT'S and lots of specialist teaching staff. The SALT picked on lots of issues that her current SALT/school have not.
Children working at a lower level than dd but emotionally about the same. Mainly boys but tha's fine were used to that!
Would have to fight big time because out of borough but I really feel dd would be looked after and understood there.
I put this to dd in a way she could understand and her answer was no 2 and that please oculd I send her somewhere small, quiet and calm as I know how she hates noise!!!
Dd's school senco said she will push for dd to go the unit as she feels she needs ms exposure but my gut instinct is that it will make dd worse as she has such high levels of anxiety.Also does my opinion count more that dd's current school?
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WWYD??? Me again. I am just so worried about what to do about dd (Aspergers) and Secondary school
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Blossomhill · 18/01/2009 19:34
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