Just been to mcDonalds and Alex saw a man and said
"Mummy,That Man Sure Is Fat!!!!"
In a clear audible voice..... amazingly the man appeared not to hear.
Then as we were finishing and i was emptying the rubbiosh off our trays into the bin.....he then said to me
"Why are you looking like that???"
(referring to my 'concentrating look'....!!!)
JaysMum made me think last night when she said that her DH plays Frustration with J....and it has been 'brought to light' how little he really understands etc....and this 'facial' expression bit made me wonder how much Alex does understand as he is yet to be considered as ASD....i have 2 already with an AS dx.......but I believe he is starting to demonstrate a clear discrepancy between his Actual Age (almost 6) and his 'Age Appropriate Understanding' etc.
This remark about the man being fat 'hit me for 6' as until they say something like tghis you just take it for granted they know what is ok to say etc....and then if you have a child with ASD you know they need help in learning to not say exactly what is going through their mind.....and then (as in alex's case) they say or do something which shows they too don't have the 'self control' etc to withold info which may be seen as offensive.
At age 3 people would 'forgive' a child for blurting out things like that....but at 6 it's not taken so well!!!!!
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"Mummy,That Man Sure Is Fat!!!!"
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MrsFROSTgetful · 31/03/2005 18:52
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