so, we have decided to take the plunge with dd1 (yes, i know - it's Christmas, we've just meved house, she's changed schools, etc - not a good time, you would think), but we reckon she is more than ready because:
She was telling us when she was wet
She can hold for hours
She is happy to sit on the toilet.
So. we are 4 days in, and whilst not a disaster, it is not going perfectly (does anything )
We have ony had maximum 2 accidents per day, which sounds great, but she only goes 3 times a day, so with the nappy on first thing (from overnight), that mean no actual success (as in wee in toilet).
So, where do we go from here?
She is happy to sit on the toilet, and even asks to do so.
She is dry the majoity of the time - she wees and poos first thing, then wees around 11.30-12.30. She might poo over her lunch time rest (she still has a rest for an hour or so - she asks to go up for a rest, and the quiet time benfits her. She obv has a nappy on for this, as cannot ask to go to the toilet). Then she wees again around 5.30-6.30 in the evening.
All good so far, but I was wondering whether there is anything I can do to help her make the connection to wee on the toilet? She is happy to sit there, but just does not connect it with wee/poo. When she does wee, we whip her into the toilet asap, then lots of praise and reinforcement. I think, though, that she is asking to go sit on the toilet so that she can get chocolate buttons, but hasn't made the connection that she gets them after a wee, not just for sitting there.
We will soldier on for now, as she is doing so well, and is very regular, but if anyone has any thoughts, I'd be grateful
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silverfrog · 22/12/2008 13:07
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