Think im having a panic attack, ds has his op on Wednesday, ive been absolutely fine about it but am now in a major panic! Dont know if its the thought of the op or a week in hospital on my own (single parent) trying to entertain him cos he cant do anything for himself.
Xp has also said he will come visit him on the Wednesday night and bring OW with him, i havent met her but this is the woman who 2 years ago turned our life upside down when she and him started seeing each other and xp flung us out.
I told him that the first time i met her shouldnt be at our sons bedside after major surgery so he is bringing her to my house tonight, not sure if this is instead of bringing her to the hospital or if its so i have met her first before he does!
Dont think he will be "allowed" to come on his own as she "feels threatened by ds"
he used to visit him 3 times a week for less than an hour but has now cut it down to twice as apparently she wasnt happy about it and hes going to be a bit busy the next few months anyway.
TBH i couldnt give a flying f**k about her as im sure he will end up treating her the same way as he treated us but as ever i am astounded by Xp's lack of tact and dont really need this on top of everything else.
Phoned the ward sister this morning to ask a few questions before ds admission and ended up blubbing like an idiot, just wish this next week was over already!!
Sorry for rambling!
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Glitteryboy goes for his button & Fundo op on Wed and now i have the OW thrust on me too!!!
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