Ds has had another shitty day at school yesterday. He's still too upset and confused to talk about it so I'm not sure exactly what happened, but it seems to have stemmed from a piece of preparation homework he didn't do and claims he didn't have. Consequently when it came to doing the actual work in class he didn't have anything to work from so he got in a panic and very stressed. He'd apparently been bouncing all day and getting into all sorts of stressy messes. He's broken yet another pair of glasses in temper - I think that's about six pairs in as many months.
The work was about writing an autobiography and ds couldn't face the questions about happiest and saddest memories - his recall is crap and he wouldn't want to face unhappy stuff anyway. Not a particularly autism-friendly piece of work.
He's never lied about having work before. Always brings it home then tries to avoid doing it if it's too stressful. There was no note in his diary about it either. Often you can have detailed conversations with ds then ten minutes later he can't remember it taking place, and I think that might have happened here with homework discussion in class.
At one point his sensory sensitivity had increased to the point where he climbed up the wall to remove the clock batteries, as the ticking was annoying him. The stand-in teacher (PPA cover) had never heard of this and the Head and I had to explain the link to autism, but the teacher was baffled. Makes me question the level of awareness at classroom level
Ds was really distressed and anxious all evening. Tried a few times to talk to me about his day but couldn't put it in the right order and kept getting upset and angry about it, so I still don't know. Plus he's worried because he's now got three pieces of homework to do this weekend instead of two, but at the same time he really wants to catch up with his classmates so somehow I've got to find a way for him to do it. It's going to be a rotten weekend
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Another rotten day at school
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streakybacon · 04/10/2008 07:19
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