We have a meeting next week at the mainstream nursery where my dd is due to start in new year. It's to discuss what extra support she'll need and discuss any concerns. Having had two recent visits I've got loads.. Am wondering how I can prepare for this meeting. I'm worrying that we've chosen the wrong place and have now left it too late for somewhere else- ds went there and he was happy there but was much more self sufficient ( not SN )and is very confident and sociable. I fear dd will really struggle and not cope at all. I feel she'll need a 1-1 worker but was told today that just means they would have an extra member of staff on when she's there and they informally take it in turns to work with dd throughout the session. They said this was to discourage over attachment to just one worker and to give workers a break as '2 1/2 hours with a special needs child is very exhausting for them so they spread the load. ' ( tell me about it!!) Is this a normal arrangement? Feel very anxious about it all.
Since dd dx in March with Tuberous Sclerosis ( multiple features but most significant for us currently is significant global developmental delay and epilepsy ) we've been quite protected by not having to deal with all the educational stuff stress. Here we are at the first of many many meetings I'm sure. Just hoping I'm up to it.. any thoughts ideas very welcome!!
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DJAngel · 02/10/2008 22:29
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