My DS is 3yrs 7mos and almost all his life I have worried that something isn't right. However I constantly waver between 'right I'm going to the GP and asking for a referral TODAY' and 'Oh I think he's fine, just a bit immature'. Does this sound familiar to anyone?
He meets all his milestones but seems to get there a bit later than normal (probably within normal limits though). He didn't say and words until around 17 months and has continued to be behind with speech. He has recently been referred to speech therapy and there is some concern there but his bottom teeth lie in front of his tops ones so the SALT's comment was 'he's really doing his very best considering the teeth problem and the late onset of talking'. He is not very sociable unless prompted with phrases to say to other children on playdates. He doesn't have many social niceities (sp) and will push away a snack being offered to him or just do a babyish whinge instead of saying no thanks. He does a lot of baby talk and whining rather than actually speaking. He sometimes finds things other children do hysterically funny and laughs so much but this is OTT and other children aren't always that impressed with his reaction! He has started to get rebuffed by other children which is hard to watch . He seems SO immature for his age and I don't know if there is more to it. He is not good at entertaining himself either and would rather just lie around doing nothing sometimes rather than playing alone (he loves playing 1-1 with an adult). He is cautious of jumping off things though goes to a gym class which he loves. He is good at the academic stuff- he knows most of the alphabet sounds and names. He recognises most no.'s 0-20 but not reliable to 100 so not freakishly bright I guess. He wants to read words though and can recognise words such as Tesco and Thomas written in my writing out of context etc. He is having a good go at writing his name.
Erm this is turning into a ramble and I should have really written it as a list instead! I am trying to describe him but have probably missed lots out. Oh yes, he has obsessions with things like everywhere we go at the moment, he wants to know if there's a lift or stairs or an escalator! If we've been there before he will tell you which of the above there is! He generally copes well with change so long as it doesn't involve something he's scared of. If anyone has any thoughs, please let me know. My main worries are he is incredibly immature and the social side with peers. Many thanks
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lorralorra · 31/07/2008 22:51
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