My SIL just visited with us from the States with her DS4 and DD2. During the visit, DH and I became very concerned that her DS may be on the autism spectrum. He has a significant speech delay, hardly any initiated speech, no eye contact, obsessive opening and closing of drawers when stressed, not potty trained, not interested in being with the other kids (we have 3 of similar ages) , finds it extremely difficult to change activities, hardly eats , looks more like a small 3 year old and melts down into an unreachable state. My SIL just says he's a sweet boy who is a bit delayed. DH is planning to speak with her on the weekend to suggest that she get her DS properly assessed. They have a good relationship btw. Can anyone give us some advice about the best way to handle the situation and the conversation? Other members of the extended family have the same concern, but no-one has really raised it. The other complication is that SIL's DH believes that their DS will 'be who he is' and doesn't need any help. Thank you for any advice!
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