Will try and keep this short, but my ds has just experienced the 6th lot of bullying at school since September - they are just NOT taking it seriously. On Monday I asked my ds what the mark on his face was and he told me that a bigger lad (well known as a bully) pushed him up against a window and took half a broken tile off a window sill outside and held it against the side of his face. A bruise came out the day after (which I have photographed).
I called the school Tuesday morning to complain and said that I wanted a meeting with the head immediately. I eventually heard that the only time they could fit me in was a week on Thursday (10th). I explained that it was a serious matter but they still attempted to fob me off. Regarding the racial incidents (against my ds for being Christian) I spoke to the Racial distrimination board and they said if I wasn't satisfied with their response, they would take it further on my behalf.
Today when I collected him his teacher wanted a word (and actually shouted at my ds in front of me) to tell me that he had pulled his trousers and pants down infront of a girl. My ds was very upset and said that the girl had told him to and she had then ran and told the teacher. I know he is not lying but the teacher has said (and written in his home/school book) that the girl is not the sort of girl that would do this. I asked the teacher to please complain to the head as it would do me a favour because I am looking to start the statementing process. The school seem reticent in doing this and have at my request asked the social difficulties team to assess him for extra help. Academically he is brilliant, but because of the AS, he finds it hard to interact with his peers, although he does really try.
My ds has had classroom support since he started this school, but the new head has removed it and my ds and the other autistic child in the class are floundering.
If you have any ideas of things to be said at the meeting on Thursday, I would be very grateful, thank you.
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Chocol8 · 04/02/2005 22:45
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